The men and women who follow the advice in โThe Professional Bachelorโ and โThe Rulesโ deserve each other. Someone should put them in a ring and let them fight it out! ๐
A friend once recommended I check out โThe Rulesโ. Presumably she thought it would help me better understand women. I didnโt think any book reflecting the maleโs perspective could be as objectionable as โThe Rulesโ until I recently discovered the โThe Professional Bachelorโ.
The Rules
The full title is: โThe Rules: Time-tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Rightโ (click here to read excerpts). A more apt title would be: โThe Rules: Time-tested Secrets for Manipulating Brain-Dead, Money-Pot, Neanderthals into Marriageโ.
I read it back in 2001, standing in a bookstore while waiting for a long delayed connecting flight. I was appalled. It depicted dating much the way dating is portrayed in โSex & the Cityโ โ with a world full of shallow, self-cantered individuals, intentionally manipulating members of the opposite sex to gain twisted advantage. Do these people really exist en masse? I rarely meet them.